Monday, May 21, 2012

Relationship and its Complications


What if love strikes in a complicated situation? It must
really be hard to be the other someone in a party if you live in a country
where one has to cheat and lie just to pursue love and leave the other one
behind. The complication is more than an abstract wall painting that is smeared
all over.

There are complications in love when legally, it becomes
prohibited. Not to mention, being happy at the expense of someone hurting is
the worse guilt one will carry, given that one has a conscience. However, there
is one what people call internal arrangement as long as both parties agree to
both having someone else already, then that is fine. This, of course, happens
not due to lack of love between a couple but there are just things that are
irrepairable from too much damage or perhaps one of the parties close the door
for repair because from years of tumultuous relationship ugly situations went
overboard which such can even be compared to uncured wall painting. But then,
it does not matter anymore. Looking at the past would not help, neither
restoring or reviving love is even acceptable. What matters now is that the
couple live as friends, give freedom to each other, create a comfortable
set-up, and open themselves to romantic love once again to new people in their lives
without cheating, lying, deceiving, and guilty feeling. Honesty is the key.
Openness is the way. Such needs to start on the first day if love outside an
existing complicated relationship (turned to just friendship) begins.
Others go through deception first and hurt the other person.

There is too much pain inflicted that yes very damaging for years that no
matter how you move forward, mentally and emotionally, it will be quite an
extra challenge. This should not take place. The couple know by themselves that
things are not working out for them. The couple know that they are damaging to
each other not unless things will be settled by creating an internal
arrangement. Original oil paintings should be well delineated from prints.
Truly, the system should be as clear as that.

Estranged couples should end up as friends in the long run.
They are to help each other no matter what. Things went bad but it cannot be
denied how they have been a shoulder to each other in so many ways.

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